Travel Stories: Once in a Lifetime Experiences

Travel Stories: Once in a Lifetime Experiences

 

Once in a lifetime experiences come in all shapes and sizes. From life, love and career milestones to bucket lists, chance encounters, and those pinch-me moments.

Some are planned, others just happen. Anyone can plan a holiday to Las Vegas and have an epic time. But you can’t plan on winning 50 Gs at roulette and next thing you know, Samuel L Jackson is there and he’s like yo Lara, I’m about to fly my private jet back to LA, why don’t you come with and we can talk about your movie idea? No, that didn’t happen. But it brings me to my next point: once in a lifetime doesn’t have to mean one in a million.

It’s no coincidence that some of my favourite once in a lifetime experiences happened during my travels after the age of 21. Before then, I was always in the passenger seat. I grew up traveling, but never in control of the itinerary. It was always someone else choosing the destination and making the plans.

 

Everything changed when I decided to board a plane to Rio instead of Lisbon to spend my birthday/Christmas with my best friend and not my family.

It was a bold move at 21. I was in the middle of my Masters Degree and somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me the ticket. This was the first trip I was in control of. I’d been to Rio a few times before, but never on my own.

Truly ahead of her time, my friend explained that she wanted to give me an experience gift for my birthday instead of buying me something, and suggested we go hang-gliding. Absolutely not. Jump off a cliff in Brazil? Never!

After my initial shock reaction, the idea began to settle and after some back and forth I uncharacteristically turned to my friend and said, let’s do it. So we hopped in a cab and found some dudes down at the beach with hang-gliding gear. After some price negotiation, we got into their car and started driving up an incredibly steep mountain.

At the top, it was a super quick “lesson” of, do you know how to run? Hold my shoulder and let’s run together. Ok, you can run. For some reason, I went first. The dude strapped me into a harness, asked me again to hold onto his shoulder, and said, ok, now we run.

 

Easy as that, I ran off the side of a cliff with a total stranger and after a sudden drop, was lifted up by the wind, hang-gliding over Rio de fucking Janeiro.

 

Hang gliding over Rio

 

It was the most incredible sensation, I was flying! I wasn’t at all afraid. How could anyone feel fear with so much beauty all around? It was so quiet and peaceful up there. I could see the whole city, the sprawling favelas, the iconic Two Brothers and Pedra da Gavea mountains.

When we landed on the beach my heart wouldn’t stop pounding from the adrenaline. I had never done anything like that before. It was a perfect, spontaneous, once in a lifetime experience. Who was this cliff-jumping person? I felt reborn! And may or may not have gotten a tattoo with a line from a Brazilian poem the very next day.

 

Rio de Janeiro Trip

 

A few months later, when I was invited to go to Sharm el-Sheikh in Egypt with some of my Masters colleagues, I was all in.

There was supposed to be a whole group of us going but in the end, we were just three. To our surprise and amusement, we were questioned at every stage of our trip, at check-in and at passport control. What is the purpose of your visit? How do you know each other? Apparently, it’s not every day you see a Norwegian, Colombian and Vietnamese travel together.

 

Sharm el Sheikh Trip

 

We were looking through the activities on offer and decided to book a sunset quad-biking tour in the desert. I’d never ridden a quad bike before and normally this would have filled me with anxiety. But something was different, I was different. You got this.

The rush I felt as I pulled the handle to accelerate my bike over the dunes was so good it made the hairs on my arm stand up. I felt like such a badass riding through the desert like something out of a movie. The sunset was so vibrant it looked like the sky was on fire, and then as sudden as blowing out a candle, everything went dark. We drove the way back through the blackest night I’d ever seen with nothing but broken headlights before us and a universe of stars up above.

 

Quad-biking

 

Fast forward a few years…

Past my first jet-ski ride in Turkey, a boat trip in Barbados where I went swimming with giant sea turtles, a near-death experience river rafting in Argentina, a helicopter tour over the Na Pali Coast… and I realize that there’s a pattern to this.

Turns out that my most special once in a lifetime travel experiences, absent hanging out with Samuel L Jackson anytime soon, all somehow involve transport. That in order to overcome my childhood feeling of always being a passenger, and never the one to take decisions or steer the course, I quite literally had to take the driver’s seat to regain control. How’s that for some self-psychoanalysis?

 

Adventure Holidays

 

 

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This post is part of a monthly travel linkup series where February’s topic is once in a lifetime experiences. If you’d like to take part, you can add your post to the link up widget found on Adventures of a London KiwiSilverSpoon LondonFollow Your Sunshine and guest host Tanja at The Red Phone Box between the 1st – 7th February 2018.

 

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16 Comments

  1. 17 February 2018 / 11:28 am

    Love this post! Hang gliding sounds like so much fun!

    • 18 February 2018 / 3:02 am

      Thanks lovely, it really was, I highly recommend it! 😀

  2. 9 February 2018 / 7:09 am

    Awesome post. I still need to visit Rio! I want to go so bad. You’re making me miss Egypt! I lived in Cairo for a year in 2007!

  3. 6 February 2018 / 6:27 pm

    Once in a lifetime doesn’t mean one in a million – love it! #thetravellinkup

  4. 5 February 2018 / 8:43 pm

    Wow amazing adventures! I would too scared to try hand-gliding though!

  5. 5 February 2018 / 3:56 pm

    Wow, what epic experiences you’ve had! Your hang gliding photos are gorgeous – I’m tempted to do it myself but not sure I’d be brave enough!

    • 6 February 2018 / 11:54 am

      The trick is to not overthink it! I thought it was something I would never in a million years do but then I went and did it so that’s how much I know 😛

  6. 4 February 2018 / 9:50 pm

    Well these are some adventures! My once in a lifetime moments are a bit quieter 😛

    • 5 February 2018 / 11:55 am

      These days they are for me too! Probably why I chose to write about when I was 21 😛

  7. 4 February 2018 / 7:34 pm

    Wow, hand-gliding must have been so thrilling, especially over Rio. (You’re certainly braver than me!)

    • 4 February 2018 / 7:49 pm

      I’m not so sure, driving around Mexico sounds far more dangerous to me! 😛

    • 4 February 2018 / 4:00 pm

      If it had been planned I’m sure I would have talked myself out of it. Some things are best done in the moment! 😛

  8. Mike
    4 February 2018 / 2:58 am

    I loved reading about all of your experiences, Lara! I liked this part at the beginning, “once in a lifetime doesn’t have to mean one in a million.” That soooo resonated with me. I was also in awe of your worldwide travels…so envious! I’ll get there. I can’t wait to read about your next big experience! 🙂

    • 4 February 2018 / 4:04 pm

      Thanks Mike! A lot more moments than we may realise are once in a lifetime. Our life passes with each day, so it’s worth making the most of it! I’m still waiting to hear about where you are going! 🙂

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